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MARRIAGE IS HARD WORK Many years ago, I used to interpret the saying Marriage is not for small boys to mean small boys in terms of age, until I visited a female mentor that has been in marriage for 47 years. I asked, so what is the secret of your over 47 years in marriage? Beaming, she retorted; My son, The Expectations you bring into marriage will either Spell its Doom or Success. I married my husband without expectations of enjoying his money or buying cars for me, but with time, my patience, hard work and God-fearing attitude yielded results of getting cars, houses, taking care of our children and all that. You see, if a married lady keeps on nagging in the house, she pushes the spirit of her husband from the home. If you make the man unhappy, you make the house uncomfortable. So, I married without High Expectations from my husband but simply to make him Happy always. Yes, for the past 47 years, I would be the first to get up from bed and the last to go back to bed.  I bath the kids


One thing I so much love about our dear sisters is concluding that every man is the same. They couldn't born for their husbands, the man dies & she got married less than 2 years & she luckily got pregnant, gallivanting with all the man's hustle while she couldn't make the deceased a father..  yet she called the dead impotent and say all men are the same... My sister you are wicked. They discovered their man isn't fit to make them a mother they walk away... Yet men with same issue will stick to his wife 5 years without remarrying or given birth outside and almost 10 years he decided to remarry rather than divorce his wife instead of saying thank you for still keeping me as your first wife  they will say all men are the same..  They realizes a man suddenly looses his erectile functions they walk away... Yet same man stood by them all seasons. My sister are all men truly the same? They discovered that their man suddenly run into bankruptcy while they be


I was of the opinion that marriage is a sacred union between a man and a woman who's mutual agreement were to stay together through thick and thin and fight whatsoever ever obstacles or evil forces that tend to penetrate their sacred bond, but is quite ironical how many spouses abuse this bond under the guise of some African culture and tradition which elevates and allow the male folks to do as they wish thereby treating their spouses as slaves and not companion as the bible made us to understand. I was swept by emotion when having a conversation with a friend,she said and I quote "when I was about to embark on a journey of marriage I build on so many castles in the air,I thought that the love that existed between I and my spouse was unshakable,untouchable and irrevocable but I was wrong,my first year in marriage was splendid and superb but as time goes on I began to experience the bitter side of my union.  my husband belongs to this barbaric school of thought that

Stop Judging self Success by Others Failures. (A must read).

John And Jane Studied Accounting in University of Calabar, Cross River State. They were both Classmates and after Five years of Studying hard, they both graduated. After graduation, Fate took them through different paths of life.  5 Years later, Jane after much frustration of securing a job, ended up as a Secretary in a Building firm earning 50,000 Naira monthly.  Meanwhile, John on the other hand, Couldn't Secure a Job and ended up a Taxi Driver, He makes At least 5,000 daily and if he works for only 20 days in a month, He makes 100,000 Naira that month. One Evening, Jane closed from work and was at the bus stop waiting for taxi when John Stopped for her, She hopped in, when she discovered the taxi was going her way but little did she know it was John, all through the journey, she was lost in her Phone.  She reached her bus Stop and after highlighting, just when she was about paying, she took a look at the driver and their eyes met, wow! They were both happy.  "Is this you?&q


*SIDE CHICK* VS *WIFE* (A MUST READ!!!) HOW TO WIN YOUR HUSBAND’S HEART: A brief telephone conversation with a housewife and her hubby's side chick. *Madam:* Hello Angela, please, leave my husband alone. *Angela:* Hello Madam, sorry I will, but kindly permit me to collect the money he promised me so as to enable me open a saloon. *Madam:* Money? How much is the money my husband promised you? *Angela:* (afraid.) Erm... erm... it is 250k ma. *Madam:* Just 250k? Alright, send me your account details.  _Alert wole gbam!_  *Angela:* (surprised.) Wow... madam, you sent 450k instead of 250k. *Madam:* Yes 250k for the saloon, and 200k for defining your purpose of sleeping with my husband. Don't worry, I was once in your shoes. Please, just leave my husband alone. *Angela:* Thanks and God bless you Ma. But Madam, I have confidential issues to discuss with you Ma. *Madam:* Yes, go on... *Angela:* (coughs.) Madam, your husband told me that each time you return from work, you just take you


When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible. It is important to know that True love is not a hide and seek game; in true love, both lovers seek each other Progress is impossible without change, and those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything. As a man, there are some things you need to change or stop doing if you really want to progress in life   In this article, I would talk about types of women a man should never cheat on. As a man, if you still fancy cheating on your woman then its high time you stop because you might be cheating on the wrong person and by doing so, you are hindering your progress in life You never know how strong a woman is until she gets in hot water. No man succeeds without a good woman behind him. Wife or mother, if it is both, then such man is twice blessed indeed. Below are 5 types of women a man should never cheat on. 1. If She is honest. Everyon

Men are indeed useless By: Taopheeq Olaitan.

I got tagged, I dropped a comment. My comment got deleted,i got blocked.  Now I'll post the reply here.  She ended a post with "men are useless.. " I replied  "98% of soldiers laying down their lives to protect your country are men.  Drugs, vaccines invented for the most deadliest diseases throughout history  were invented by men.  98% of tools, machines,  invented to make life easier for you.. Were by men.  Even your pads to keep you comfortable and healthy during your menstrual period was invented by a man.  You sat down on a Chair made by a man, you brought out a phone invented by A man.  With a simcard invented by a man,  using the internet connection invented by a man,   To login on an app developed  by a man, Using the copy and paste option invented by a man. To tell us how useless men are? .  Your freedom was bought using the bloods of brave men throughout history.  All the Laws and Legislations today to protect women were drafted, signed by mostly men.  How c

The Paradox Of Time

*Brilliant Quotes* *THE PARADOX OF TIME* 01. *We live in times where we see many humans, but not enough humanity;* 02. *We live in times where the rich has more rooms than children and the poor has more children than rooms.* 03. *We live in times where Smart Phones bring you closer to those who are far, but distance you from those who are close;* 04. *We live in times where a single mother can look after 10 children, but 10 children can't look after a single mother;* 05. *We live in times where the rich walk miles to digest food, while the poor walk miles to obtain food;* 06. *We live in times where our contact lists are huge, but our relationships are poor;* 07. *We live in times where our possessions are more, but our contentment is less;* 08. *We live in times where we know how to earn a good living, but somehow forget how to live a good life;* 09 *We live in times where many know the price of everything, but  the value of nothing;* 10 *We live in time when People get Power but

The Lonely path to stupidity and Ferminism. By Taopheeq Olaitan.

Man(45 dating 22): " that's predatory, he wants to control her..  He manipulated her" Woman(45 dating 22): " love is blind, age is just a number. She's happy that's all that matter".  _____________ Woman(with 3 baby daddies) : *getting married* she finally found  love, everyone deserve to be happy. He's a real man, only a real man can take care of another man's kids without making any fuss about it.  Man(with 3 baby mamas) :  *getting married* "Davido is not my Ideal man, community penis. she's a patriarchy princess. Only  that type of brainless woman can marry that community penis. (Even tho she won't take care of those kids) " _______ Woman: " she seduced him, she's not scared to make her move. She doesn't care about what people says.  Man:  "he harassed her. A pervert." *And now they added another one  ______ Man: he cheated on her, he disrespected his wife having an affair with his son's agemate, a

The Hustle will soon Pay off....

The Hustle will soon Pay off.... Get your fire back.  It’s not over until God says it’s over. Start believing again.  Start pursuing what God put in your heart! God took His time crafting you.  And He doesn't design accidents, He creates purpose! We may be overlooked by others.  But we are handpicked by God! Giving up is not an option, quitting is not in your mindset! When you feel like quitting, think about where you started! “Don’t let your hearts be troubled. Trust in God, and trust also in me.”  ‭‭-John‬ ‭14:1! Trusting God is always worth it! Quiting meaning starting over again... Stay on track and prayerful. HAVE A BLESSED DAY!  FOR GOD HAS YOUR BACK! STAY SAFE...... W SHALL MAKE IT SOMEDAY.


An unknown author came up with daily living principles that is worth sharing. 1. ᵈᵒⁿ’ᵗ ᶜᵃˡˡ ˢᵒᵐᵉᵒⁿᵉ ᵐᵒʳᵉ ᵗʰᵃⁿ ᵗʷⁱᶜᵉ ᶜᵒⁿᵗⁱⁿᵘᵒᵘˢˡʸ. ⁱᶠ ᵗʰᵉʸ ᵈᵒⁿ’ᵗ ᵖⁱᶜᵏ ᵘᵖ ʸᵒᵘʳ ᶜᵃˡˡ, ᵖʳᵉˢᵘᵐᵉ ᵗʰᵉʸ ʰᵃᵛᵉ ˢᵒᵐᵉᵗʰⁱⁿᵍ ⁱᵐᵖᵒʳᵗᵃⁿᵗ ᵗᵒ ᵃᵗᵗᵉⁿᵈ ᵗᵒ. 2. ʳᵉᵗᵘʳⁿ ᵐᵒⁿᵉʸ ᵗʰᵃᵗ ʸᵒᵘ ʰᵃᵛᵉ ᵇᵒʳʳᵒʷᵉᵈ ᵉᵛᵉⁿ ᵇᵉᶠᵒʳᵉ ᵗʰᵉ ᵒᵗʰᵉʳ ᵖᵉʳˢᵒⁿ ʳᵉᵐᵉᵐᵇᵉʳˢ ᵃˢᵏⁱⁿᵍ ᶠᵒʳ ⁱᵗ  ᶠʳᵒᵐ  ʸᵒᵘ. ⁱᵗ ˢʰᵒʷˢ ʸᵒᵘʳ ⁱⁿᵗᵉᵍʳⁱᵗʸ ᵃⁿᵈ ᶜʰᵃʳᵃᶜᵗᵉʳ. ˢᵃᵐᵉ ᵍᵒᵉˢ ʷⁱᵗʰ ᵘᵐᵇʳᵉˡˡᵃˢ, ᵖᵉⁿˢ ᵃⁿᵈ ˡᵘⁿᶜʰ ᵇᵒˣᵉˢ. 3. ⁿᵉᵛᵉʳ ᵒʳᵈᵉʳ ᵗʰᵉ ᵉˣᵖᵉⁿˢⁱᵛᵉ ᵈⁱˢʰ ᵒⁿ ᵗʰᵉ ᵐᵉⁿᵘ ʷʰᵉⁿ ˢᵒᵐᵉᵒⁿᵉ ⁱˢ ᵍⁱᵛⁱⁿᵍ ʸᵒᵘ ᵃ ˡᵘⁿᶜʰ/ᵈⁱⁿⁿᵉʳ. ⁱᶠ ᵖᵒˢˢⁱᵇˡᵉ ᵃˢᵏ ᵗʰᵉᵐ ᵗᵒ ᵒʳᵈᵉʳ ᵗʰᵉⁱʳ ᶜʰᵒⁱᶜᵉ ᵒᶠ ᶠᵒᵒᵈ ᶠᵒʳ ʸᵒᵘ. 4. ᵈᵒⁿ’ᵗ ᵃˢᵏ ᵃʷᵏʷᵃʳᵈ ᵠᵘᵉˢᵗⁱᵒⁿˢ ˡⁱᵏᵉ ‘ᵒʰ ˢᵒ ʸᵒᵘ ᵃʳᵉⁿ’ᵗ ᵐᵃʳʳⁱᵉᵈ ʸᵉᵗ?’ ᵒʳ ‘ᵈᵒⁿ’ᵗ ʸᵒᵘ ʰᵃᵛᵉ ᵏⁱᵈˢ’ ᵒʳ ‘ʷʰʸ ᵈⁱᵈⁿ’ᵗ ʸᵒᵘ ᵇᵘʸ ᵃ ʰᵒᵘˢᵉ?’ ᵒʳ ʷʰʸ ᵈᵒⁿ'ᵗ ʸᵒᵘ ᵇᵘʸ ᵃ ᶜᵃʳ? ᶠᵒʳ ᵍᵒᵈ’ˢ ˢᵃᵏᵉ ⁱᵗ ⁱˢⁿ’ᵗ ʸᵒᵘʳ ᵖʳᵒᵇˡᵉᵐ. 5. ᵃˡʷᵃʸˢ ᵒᵖᵉⁿ ᵗʰᵉ ᵈᵒᵒʳ ᶠᵒʳ ᵗʰᵉ ᵖᵉʳˢᵒⁿ ᶜᵒᵐⁱⁿᵍ ᵇᵉʰⁱⁿᵈ ʸᵒᵘ. ⁱᵗ ᵈᵒᵉˢⁿ’ᵗ ᵐᵃᵗᵗᵉʳ ⁱᶠ ⁱᵗ ⁱˢ ᵃ ᵍᵘʸ ᵒʳ ᵃ ᵍⁱʳˡ, ˢᵉⁿⁱᵒʳ ᵒʳ ʲᵘⁿⁱᵒʳ.  ʸᵒᵘ ᵈᵒⁿ’ᵗ ᵍʳᵒʷ ˢᵐᵃˡˡ ᵇʸ ᵗʳᵉᵃᵗⁱⁿᵍ ˢᵒᵐᵉᵒⁿᵉ ʷᵉˡˡ ⁱⁿ ᵖᵘᵇˡⁱᶜ. 6. ⁱᶠ ʸᵒᵘ ᵗᵃᵏᵉ ᵃ ᵗᵃˣⁱ ʷⁱᵗʰ ᵃ ᶠʳⁱᵉⁿᵈ ᵃⁿᵈ ʰᵉ/ˢʰᵉ ᵖᵃʸˢ ⁿᵒʷ, ᵗʳ

The missed Priorities in Ferminism.

"Behind every successful man, there's a woman " A brother here was forced to delete a post(a silly one tho)following an outrage.  He assert 'most' of the successful women out there must have men as their backbone.  "You have a very low opinion of women that you think a woman can't be successful without a man? " "You must be a very big fool for writing this rubbish " "Blocked " A lot of epistles on the comment section of that post on how Patriachy and misogyny will lead to world war 3. Then it just hit me, none of us ever get mad with the phrase; "Behind every successful man, there's a woman " on that  post the gentleman used  "most" But this particular phrase.. You have 'every' ___________  we're been told right from birth (subtly) that mothers are more valuable than fathers .  There's this Yoruba adage comparing fathers with  mirrors.. And mothers with gold. No one ever associat

Giving out without expecting anything... By Taopheeq Olaitan.

If there's any moment I ever feel like slapping the simping spirit out of a mangina.  It's that moment of? "she promised to marry me and after I sponsored her to school, she's saying I'm no more   on her level " You were never!.. Sorry bro..  She's smarter than you are.. She used you.. Move on!   You're uneducated and You want to sponsor a lady to school?.. Cool.. Do it for humanity If you can..  but you're expecting marriage as a reward?.. 'Hopeless Simp' should be tattooed On your forehead then.  If she end up marrying you.. Might be out of pity... You're entering hell.. Not marriage then..  Your uncle did that?.. Trust me he was lucky... You won't.  Hypergamy; might not even be financial strength .. But one way or the other women tends to marry who's better than them.. No debate.  She's richer(or got the prospect)  Smarter.  More educated.  More exposed than you.  Ontop of that.. You're still a simp.  Then

Happy Birthday Hadiza Cheto by : Comrade Emmanuel Audu.

Family Fri ppy Birthday, Far Awa Happy Birthday Hadiza Cheto by : Comrade Emmanuel Audu.  Kaduna Finest Officer. I want to wish you a splendid happy birthday. Far from Kogi state we still kept contact, you are a friend turned sister despite the distance. You're growing to become the intelligent woman I know you can be. I'm so fortunate to have a friend like you who's gentle, loving, and sweet. Today should be a day of pure happiness and love for you, Enjoying and gathering with those who remain devoted and true to your cause. Truest and discipline Damsel Hadiza I wish you the best in life, though we both know how hard it can be, But I pray that God will open your doors to brighter opportunities. You are the kind of person who always offers a helping hand. An intelligent officer who knows what is right at all time. We are miles away from each other, but the passion we share will never end. Distance can always be a difficult test but maturity a steppin


A  MUST READ FOR ALL HOME. An known authour ones wrote. One mistake you should never make is to allow yourself  to be recruited by someone, to hate another person who hasn't wronged you. Hear this: “ We must avoid taking hasty conclusion because of what others are saying about someone else".  What people say about others, says a lot about them.  I am repeating this more directly:  The things you say about others, says a lot about you!  I can tell a lot about a person by what they choose to see in others. Character assassination is a pervasive and destructive phenomenon that is found everywhere.  You find it in families, churches, organizations, work places, etc. Wikipedia defines Character assassination as* the deliberate, malicious, unjustified and sustained effort to damage the reputation or credibility of an individual.  The Merriam-Webster defines it as the slandering of a person usually with the intention of destroying public confidence in that person.  Athi M